My forever family

My forever family
Showing posts with label parties. Show all posts
Showing posts with label parties. Show all posts

Thursday, December 23, 2010

More parties?!

Yesterday, Elijah asked me if it would be okay to invite his work friends for a simple brunch the next day. I was all for it. As I was preparing the food this morning, I realized that with the exception of Charlton, this month, I have thrown a party for each of my family members, starting with my Christmas/book club party, birthday party for James, Christmas party for Gillian, and Christmas party at school for Jefferson. And today, a brunch for Elijah's friends. I'm telling you I need to find a job as a party organizer!

It was meant to be a simple bacon and eggs meal, but I kept adding to it muffins, bagels with slices of onion, tomato, bacon and provolone cheese melted on it, cinnamon rolls, fruit platters, and Elijah's praline pecans. I'm sorry I don't have any pictures, but we were all so taken by the delicious food, that I didn't think of it till later when the food was all gone. We then all sang some Christmas songs, starting with Sarah and Jacob (Elijah's sister and her husband) as they beautifully sang Santa Baby. One of Elijah's friends from work is form China and we asked him to sing their national anthem, which he did. We could hear the propoganda while he sang it, even though we didn't understand the words. Gillian then sang some songs accompanied by Elijah and the boys. Charlton was taking one of his four hour naps, so we had no one to accompany us with the harmonica. It was hard to sing without him, but we somehow managed. We all had a wonderful time, and I was glad that my last party of the year was for Elijah, since I never get to do anything special for him.

Around 3:30 we left for San Francisco. Sarah's birthday was today, and Jacob was taking her out down town. As for us, I had gotten tickets for a cable car tour seeing the Christmas lights in San Francisco. The tour was okay. I was a bit disappointed that residential areas, especially the very wealthy ones, had very few Christmas trees on display. We enjoyed visiting Fairmont Hotel, Union Square (did you know that Macy's store in Union Square occupies one whole block with six stories high and all of that just filled with items only for women?) Fisherman's Wharf, Haight Street shops, Chinatown, and many more. My camera isn't that good at night, but here are some of the pictures I took on this tour:


After we all got back, we celebrated Sarah's birthday by eating ice-cream cake, and giving her birthday presents. She had a golden birthday today, since she turned 23 on the 23rd of December. Happy Birthday, Sarah! We all love you.

Wednesday, December 15, 2010

Passing the baton

Earlier this month Gillian asked me if she could throw a Christmas party for her friends. She had overheard me speak of my plans for my Christmas party, and had come up with the idea of having some hot chocolate and cookies with her friends. I was all for Gillian following in her mother's footsteps.

I have to say after having thrown a birthday party for James with about 20 people, having 5 girls was a breeze. Since this was going to be Gillian's first party of her own, I asked for her input on the games and activities to be played. I had the boys stay upstairs for the most part, so Gillian could host without having to entertain her brothers. She did take care of Charlton, though. For some reason, Charlton didn't want to leave her sight.

Here are some of the activities that the girls enjoyed:

Paint your own princess glass art


Climb high and jump fast

Flour, rolling pins and cookie cutters

Girly bonding through bracelets and beads

Eating and decorating go hand in hand

I know all of them had a great time. I myself enjoyed seeing how happy Gillian was and how much she wanted each of the girls to have fun. When they all left, Gillian thanked me for helping her throw a great party, and then exclaimed what a special holiday Christmas was. I'm glad Christmas offers us opportunities to make others happy by showing them how much we care.

Throwing parties and serving others are two ways I share my love for others. What are some of your ways you share your kindness with others? What has been a great way you were shown kindness or love by others?

Monday, June 14, 2010

The Garmon residence abounds with excitement!

Today was the last day of school, and the children and mom alike are absolutely ecstatic. I won't feel guilty anymore (or at least for the mere two months of summer vacation) for taking my kids out of school to explore this region. Of course, I'll have some sort of summer school for them, but mostly we are going to have fun.

To celebrate the end of the school year, Jefferson's class invited parents and siblings to participate in a fun party. Jefferson was very adamant this morning in reminding me the time of the party and encouraging me to not be late. The parents were in charge of games and food. I offered to be the story teller, while the other parents organized indoor and outdoor games. Jefferson and James were inseparable the whole time.

While the children were playing different games outside, Gillian's class was having recess at the same time, and I was able to be with Gillian for a few minutes, as well as take a picture of Gillian with her teacher, Mrs. Barney. Mrs. Barney has been such a wonderful teacher to Gillian. She has helped Gillian strengthen her confidence and has continuously encouraged her to work harder. I'm so grateful to her and teachers like her, who take their job seriously, and help our children succeed.

After the children were tired out from all the games and the bright sun, we had them go inside their classroom and eat some yummy pizza and cupcakes. All of the children had a wonderful time, but I have to say that James was in heaven just to be with his older brother. After lunch, some parents had brought their own entertainment, and later allowed the children to have a go with the instruments.
After school, I took the children to the library so they could fill their bags with books for the week. And they literally did. While we were checking out our books, the librarian notified us that we had exceeded the one hundred limit. There were another ten or so books left, and they were Jefferson's. He was the one actually who had filled two enormous bags full of books. Jefferson is at an age when he can enjoy chapter books as much as picture books, so he had checked out a variety of books and books-on tape. You should have seen his face when I told him we had to leave the rest for another time. He was very upset and told me and the librarian that he had already left many a books on the library table, and these were his favorites. The librarian, seeing that he was about to cry, told him that she would make an exception for such a valiant reader. Jefferson's face lightened up as tears stayed in his eyelashes. The librarian then turned to me and suggested I get individual cards for my kids. Good advice! As soon as we got home, a melodious hush spread throughout my living room, the soothing sound of pages turning. A "Do not disturb" sign floated in the air.

Tonight as an activity for Family Home Evening, Elijah had the kids help him clean his motorcycle, and then later harvest our garden. The children love to help Elijah with anything. As soon as he mentions he needs help with something, the children jump up with a desire to be part of their dad's work, even when it is just picking up sticks or weeding the garden. And they are happy when they do it, which is in total contrast with their sour faces when asked by their mother to finish up the laundry. I haven't figured out what the difference is, except that they don't see their father all day and they long to be with him. Or maybe Elijah is just better in diplomacy. I tend to believe the first.
One more thing for tonight. On Friday, I told my mother that I had bought some leeks and was planning to cook this particular Albanian dish that we all love and that she makes for us when she is here. She asked me "Didn't you buy some last week?" I responded that it was the same bunch. She then told me that she felt bad for Elijah who had a wife that didn't cook much. Of course she was teasing me. Elijah has a good cook for a wife, right Elijah? Well, just to prove her wrong, I made the dish that very day, and I took a picture of it, so she could believe me. When we talked on Sunday, she said she hadn't seen my picture and therefore she couldn't believe me. Teasing again. I was obliged to call Elijah to tell her the truth. She then asked if I had cooked it well, which in response Elijah said that it wasn't as good as hers, but it was a start. More teasing. The truth of the matter is that I am a good cook, when I cook. And we won't say how often I do. Bon Appetit!